Things to Know before you get Married?

 

It is better to remain single than to marry a bad wife or a bad husband. A happy single life is better than a sad married life In most cases, change takes place during courtship and not in marriage. If you cannot change your partner during courtship, do not expect any magic in marriage. In most cases, a bad character in courtship is worst in marriage. A bad marriage is like hell on earth. Never manage to marry somebody. It is better to be single and wish to get married than to be married and wish to be single. Marry an imperfect person who is willing to work on his/her imperfection. This is the only type of person you can be patient with and also tolerate; not a person who does not take correction and therefore, not willing to change.

The biggest regret on earth is to regret why you married someone. A wise man once said, "Marriage is not so much finding the right person as it is being the right person." If everyone would take this saying and make it a part of their life we would have better marriages and a better society. Research suggests that successful marriages have the following six components: appreciation and affection, commitment, positive communication, time together, spiritual well-being, and the ability to cope with stress and crisis. so my question here is, do you see this six components in him or her before getting marriage to him or her. 

If you don't understand or like what your boyfriend or girlfriend is doing, ask about it and why he or she is doing it. And vice versa. Explore. Talk. Don't assume because it may affect you if such situations are not addressed to before getting into marriage. Try to attend all issues before going into marriage, if not, then u will have to deal with all those issues you tried ignoring when get you into marriage

Never marry someone who doesn't want to learn how to apologise.marriage doesn't work very well when one sucks at apology.

Try to attend all issues before going into marriage, if not, then u will have to deal with all those issues you tried ignoring when get you into marriage. Don't marry because you don't want to lose the person

Don't marry because you are getting old. Don't marry because you mistakenly got pregnant. Don't marry because you are lonely. Don't marry because you need someone to support you financially

Don't marry because all your friends are getting married. married. The biggest mistake on earth is to marry a wrong person you cannot cope with. Do not play with marriage issue. This is because in marriage, you will spend the rest of your life with your spouse. So it is either you spend the rest of your life in pains and sadness and die a premature death or in happiness and joy and live long.